MY DEAR FRIENDS....

FEW DAYS BACK I WAS LISTENING TO INTERNATIONAL MOTIVATOR AND BESTSELLING AUTHOR, DR UJJWAL PATNI IN A SEMINAR AT MALAYSIA.THERE HE WAS TALKING ABOUT EXPRESSING EMOTIONS. HIS WORDS REALLY STRIKED ME, MADE ME PONDER AND FRANKLY, I WAS VERY UNEASY AFTER THAT. I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT HIS WORDS WILL BE HELPFUL FOR ALL OF US..THOUGH I AM NOT ABLE TO REPRODUCE THE FULL LECTURE BECAUSE THAT WAS TOO LONG, YOU READ THE EXCERPTS HERE .JUST HAVE A LOOK. IF YOU LIKE THIS ARTICLE, THEN DO THANK DR UJJWAL PATNI AT HIS EMAIL..
A POLL IS ALSO THERE-

DO U THINK EMAILS AND MOBILE ARE ENCROACHING IN OUR PERSONAL SPACE AND WE ARE MORE MECHANICAL THEN WE WERE EVER BEFORE..
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DEAR AUDIENCE..

DAY BY DAY,WE ARE LESS HUMAN AND MORE MACHINE. JUST THINK, LATELY, HOW WERE YOU TREATING YOUR LOVED ONES,YOUR FATHER , YOUR MOTHER, YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER,YOUR SPOUSE, YOUR FRIENDS OR EVEN YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND.

UNFORTUNATELY,THESE DAYS , SITTTING TOGETHER FOR HOURS ARE REPLACED BY PHONE CALLS, WONDERFUL FEELINGFUL LETTERS ARE REPLACED BY SHORT EMAILS AND NOW SMS IS GRADUALLY REPLACING THE PERSONAL ATTENDENCE.

DO U REMEMBER, WHEN YOU LAST TOLD YOUR DAD OR MOM THAT YOU CARE FOR THEM..CAN YOU MEMORIZE ANY PERSONAL MOMENT WITH FAMILY WITHOUT A INTERFERENCE OF LAPTOP OR MOBILE IN RECENT PAST.DO YOU EXACTLY REMEMBER ,HOW IT FEELS WHEN YOU SLEEP ON THE LAP OF YOUR MOTHER.

NOT JUST PARENT- CHILD RELATIONS, EVEN MARRIED COUPLE ARE OVERBURDENED, OVERSTRETCHED AND TOO BUSY.

ARE YOU MARRIED ?

IF YES..THEN TRY TO REMEMBER WHEN YOU HUGGED YOUR SPOUSE OR SAID FROM THE DEPTH OF YOUR HEART THAT ...I LOVE YOU

DON'T TELL ME ABOUT THOSE DOZENS OF I LUV U'S THAT YOU MECHANICALLY SAY WHEN YOU LEAVE FOR OFFICE OR COME BACK OR WHEN YOU ARE OUT FOR FEW DAYS. I AM TALKING ABOUT FEELINGFUL ONES.

I AM SORRY TO SAY HERE BUT ONE OF MY FRIEND IS A LEADING SEX AND MARRIAGE COUNSELOR. HE REVEALED THE FACT THAT MOST OF THE CASES THEY ATTEND FALL INTO THIS CATEGORY- MARRIED BUT RARELY HAVE PHYSICAL INTIMACY BECAUSE EITHER ONE OF THEM IS BUSY ALL THE TIME.

ONE PSYCHOLOGIST FRIEND TOLD ME THAT CHILDRENS ARE HEAVILY NEGLECTED DUE TO THE SCHEDULES OF PARENTS. TO HIDE THE GUILT, PARENTS PROVIDE THEM WHATEVER GOOD OR BAD THEY ASK FOR. UNFORTUNATE CHILDREN NEVER DEVELOP CHARACTER AND PERSONAL VALUES BECAUSE THEY SPEND MOST OF THEIR TIME WITH DRIVER, MAID OR CARE TAKER. GRADUALLY CHILDREN GO ASTRAY OR MISS THE RIGHT PATH AND INDULGE IN UNETHICAL ACTIVITIES.

MY DEAR FRIENDS, YOUR CHILD NEED YOUR PERSONAL TIME, YOUR UNDIVIDED ATENTION.. SIT AND THINK QUIETLY .. ARE YOU GIVING THEM THE RIGHT UPBRINGING.

WE ARE MISSING VITALITY, INNOCENCE AND EMOTIONS EVERYWHERE IN THIS RAT RACE. I REMEMBER FEW WORTHY LINES FROM JAIN SAINT SHRI TARUN SAGARJI MAHARAJ THAT I WISH TO SHARE HERE..

FOR THREE TASKS , YOU MUST NEVER APPOINT A SERVANT...

1] FOR TAKING CARE OF YOUR PARENTS, CHILDREN AND LOVING THEM

2] FOR KANYADAN OF YOUR SISTER OR DAUGHTER

3] FOR LOVING YOUR WIFE.

MY DEAR FRIENDS... I 100% AGREE..I CAN NEVER KEEP SERVANTS FOR ANY OF THE SAID TASKS....YOU KNOW BETTER ABOUT URSELF

LOOK INTO YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH. MOST OF YOU ARE WELL SETTLED AND EARNING AT YOUR OWN. DON'T MISS THE LITTLE EMOTIONAL PLEASURES OF LIFE, DON'T NEGLECT THE PEOPLE WHO SCRIFCIED THEIR LIFE FOR YOU, DON'T KEEP MUM WHEN EXPRESSING EMOTIONS IS NECESSARY.

AA YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS ARE WASTE AND WORTHLESS IF YOU CAN'T KEEP YOUR OWN PEOPLE HAPPY. NOW A DAYS WE ARE MISS U AWARE ABOUT NATIONAL AND INTERNATIONAL FRONT, WE ARE EVEN AWARE ABOUT THE SOCIETY AND RELATED RESPONSIBILITIES BUT WE ARE RELATIVELY NEGLECTFUL TOWARDS OUR OWN PEOPLE,OUR FAMILY. IF YOU ARE HAPPY AT THE DOMESTIC FRONT, YOU WILL FINALLY EMERGE AS A WINNER AT ALL OTHER FRONTS.

SPEAK PERSONALLY WHENEVER IT IS POSSIBLE, EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS WHEREVER IT IS NEEDED, COME OUT AND EXPERIENCE THE WORLD DIRECTLY. REPLACE ALL SMS AND EMAILS WITH A LITTLE PERSONAL TOUCH.DON'T BEHAVE LIKE A MANAGER AT HOME .. BE A GOOD SON, BROTHER,HUSBAND OR WIFE.

WISH YOU HAPPY FAMILY AND PERSONAL LIFE...